Setting up yourself and excelling in this competitive world and at the same time balancing your responsibilities at home does demand a lot from you. Every modern girl dream of standing on their own feet and be economically independent. That's the dream one chases for first 20-25years of one's life. I won't deny that, same was my dream too. I completed my Masters in Computer Technology and fortunately got a good break in good IT company. We all know that change is law of nature but the pace with which technology changes is really tuff to catch up with latest. One needs to regularly brush up their skills very frequently and that does demand a good amount of time from you.
So, that was about my professional role, going toward personal me, I am happy to share that despite being daughter and sister, I have the responsibilities of being a wife, daughter-in-law and most importantly mother of two small kids. If one starts counting the responsibilities that comes with that package, it won't be possible. Here, comes in picture what we call in IBM - Work/Life Balance. I would say, the stage I am in right now, is the most crucial and difficult stage. There are challenges in your professional life that you can not leave taking up as well as in personal life that you can not get rid of. There's testing time all through the way. You are being tested for your patience level almost daily. No wonder, we find many cases of Stress and frustrations in such situations. But, the key here is how we sail in these testing times, how we balance out things, how to set a demarcation between professional and personal life and coming out a winner in both area.This is the phase when the most precious thing that you can think is - TIME. One needs to make best use of the time available. Time management is the key. There are some other important skills that comes as good help. These are :
- Delegation of non-important work.
- Focusing on key areas.
- Saying 'No' to things that are really not in your area and you are not willing to go for that.
- Spending some time for self only, when you can do some thinking/planning on course of action you really want to pursue.
- Choosing the right direction.
- Open for brainstorming, discussion with peers, seniors, family whenever you are in delima.