I received my copy of Sam Lightstone's latest book: Making it Big in Software. What chapter should I read first? I think I'll start with Chapter 14: "Zen and the Critical Art of Balance". Why this chapter? I think software developers are notorious for NOT HAVING A LIFE! I must admit that working in the software business (and for IBM for that matter) can be all consuming and never ending... and maybe a bit addictive. Can a balance be achieved? I think it can and I'll let you read what Sam says about the subject.
The only hint I'll give you is the last paragraph that Sam wrote in this chapter:
"Careers do require hard work and enthusiasm, and those are attributes that encourage people to spend more time at the office. Finding your own balance is hard, but if you discover the Philosopher's Stone that helps you get it right, you'll have done the best possible service to your career and your life. No other tactic or vice will serve you better. With only one life to lead, it's definitely worth the effort".
Thanks Sam for helping all these hardworking people achieve a balance in their life while pursuing a very gratifying career in software.
PS... the book is now available for purchase, but it appears that amazon is still saying that it hasn't been released and are offering their standard 34% discount while it is in this state.